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Mark 10:17-31

October 19, 2025

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Outline

  • The Landing

One question

Toby brought his one-month-old granddaughter up to make a point - that she brings nothing to the table and can't survive without someone else caring for her completely. What's your honest first reaction to the idea that that's supposed to describe your relationship with God?

The whole sermon
The Big Idea

Getting into the kingdom of God is impossible for you - and that's exactly the point, because it was never supposed to be on you.

Central Image

The loaded camel - all the things a person piles up to justify themselves before God (knowledge, works, righteousness, good ideas) - which still can't fit through the eye of a needle no matter how deserving the person carrying it is.

The Turn

The sermon exposed the assumption that the rich man's failure is about greed or moral compromise - and overturned it by showing he was the best-case scenario: wealthy, righteous, humble, law-keeping, and the only person in Mark that Jesus is said to love. If he can't make it on his own, nobody can.

Outline

Setting Up the Tradition: Wealth as God's Favor

Toby opened by establishing that wealth in the Old Testament - from Abraham's ten camels to Solomon's gold - was understood as a mark of God's blessing on righteous people. The Sabbath year alone required national-level prosperity. The disciples weren't suspicious of wealth; they assumed it confirmed God's approval. This framing is essential: if you miss it, you'll misread everything that follows.

The Sandwich: What's on Either Side

Mark 10:17-31 sits between two scenes - Jesus welcoming the children (receive the kingdom like a child) and Jesus shutting down James and John's power grab (the greatest must be servant of all). These bookends aren't decoration; they're the interpretive frame. The child who brings nothing and the servant who gives everything bracket a story about a man who has everything and still can't get in.

The Rich Man: Best Case, Not Worst

Toby walked through each detail of the man's approach - he ran, he knelt, he was publicly undignified despite his status. He knew the commandments. He'd kept them since youth. Jesus didn't correct him. And uniquely in all of Mark, Jesus looked at him and loved him. Toby's point: this is not a cautionary tale about a corrupt rich man. This is the most qualified candidate who ever came to Jesus. If the standard is "good enough to get in on your own," this is the guy.

The Camel Line and the Right Question

Jesus says it's harder for a rich man to enter the kingdom than for a camel to go through a needle's eye. Toby dismissed the "small gate" interpretation - Jesus meant impossible, not difficult. The disciples ask the right question: then who can be saved? Toby pressed hard on this: if you're not asking that question, you're not reading the room correctly. The man had the visible sign of God's favor, the moral record, the humility, and Jesus' own love - and still couldn't do it. What does that leave for the rest of us?

Unloading the Camel

The two things Jesus told the man - sell everything and follow me - are really one thing: let go of what you think gets you there and grab hold of me instead. Toby named what people load onto their camels: Bible knowledge, good works, spiritual track record, moral effort. None of it threads the needle. Using his granddaughter as the illustration, he made the case that receiving the kingdom like a child means coming with nothing - because a month-old can't feed herself, can't burp herself, can't do anything. She survives entirely because someone else loves her. That's the posture.

The Pastoral Turn: People Near the End

Toby shifted to what he's seen pastorally - believers near death who weren't sure they'd done enough. He called that a failure on his part if it happens. Then he drew the line plainly: if you know you love Jesus, believe he died for your sins, believe he rose, and call him Lord - then the uncertainty about whether you've done enough is the wrong question. It was never on you. It is impossible for man. Not for God.

The Landing

The invitation wasn't to believe harder or try more - it was to unload the camel. Set down whatever you've been quietly trusting alongside Jesus to get you there, because it was always impossible, and he already did the impossible for you.

Questions to Think About

  1. Toby brought his one-month-old granddaughter up to make a point - that she brings nothing to the table and can't survive without someone else caring for her completely. What's your honest first reaction to the idea that that's supposed to describe your relationship with God?
  2. Toby spent a good chunk of time before even getting to the story establishing that wealth in the Old Testament - Abraham, Joseph, Solomon, Isaiah - was a sign of God's favor on righteous people. Why does that backstory matter for understanding what the disciples would have heard when Jesus said it's hard for the wealthy to enter the kingdom?
  3. Toby said Jesus meant a literal camel through a literal needle - impossible, not just difficult. And he said the right question to ask when you hear that is "then who can be saved?" Why is that the right question, and what does it change if you come to the story asking something different?
  4. Toby described a camel loaded down with things people bring to God - Bible knowledge, good works, spiritual street cred, good ideas, righteousness. What's on your camel?
  5. Toby said he's sat with believers near the end of their lives who weren't sure they'd done enough - and he said if that's where you land, he'll feel like he failed you. Why do people who love Jesus end up in that place?
  6. The rich man in the story is the only person in all of Mark's Gospel that Jesus looks at and is said to love - and Jesus still tells him to sell everything and come follow him. What do you do with the fact that Jesus loved him and still let him walk away?
  7. If the message is that nothing you bring gets you there and the only thing that matters is grabbing hold of Jesus - what does that actually change about how this church operates, how we talk about who belongs here and who doesn't?
  8. Toby said the invitation is to unload the camel - not get rid of him, just unpack him. Name one specific thing you've been loading onto your camel that you're going to set down this week.